Anxious in Love? Here’s How to Break the Cycle for Good.

Struggling in your relationships? The key might not be getting the other person to change - it’s something deeper (and surprisingly easier!).

I don’t see insecure attachment styles as evidence of being broken, or even parts of us that are “wrong”. I see them as a language our subconscious is using to try and tell us that we feel unsafe at a very deep level. 

And it’s really tempting to use others to try and get a sense of safety. 

“Maybe if I can get him to commit…”

“If she would just open up to me…”

“He doesn’t appreciate me…”

It makes sense why we do this. And there is nothing wrong with wanting to feel love, safety, security, and comfort from our loved ones. 

But here’s the kicker - the love and security you’ve been chasing in others can actually start with you. The more you give it to yourself, the more naturally it flows in your relationships.

I know it seems scary - but trust me. You can experience MUCH more fulfilling and secure relationships once you start engaging your subconscious in regular, loving conversation. 

And I want to help you.  

This is a judgement-free zone. It doesn’t matter where you are in your attachment journey. It doesn’t matter how old you are, or who you’re dating, or how much anxiety you have.

I can guide you in learning to talk to your subconscious with love, so you start feeling safe, connected, and fulfilled in your relationships.